Secret of Life – First You Lose Then You Win

Secret of Life – First You Lose Then You Win

This is the primordial and timeless secret of life. First you have to lose, and only then you Win. The Spiritual discovery requires you to follow this Art.

Normally, people are too anxious to embrace success, peace or anything else they desire. It is not by chance that a great personality has said: “Patience is a virtue.

The universe in which we live holds in its heart a great secret. If you observe carefully and meditate on, it will be disclosed to you.

The universe all around us is not going anywhere. It is still and calm. Nothing and no one except us humans seem to be in a hurry

If we connect with this universal source, we too will discover our original calm and a state of unhurried peace. For this to happen you should understand a secret of life and that is to lose yourself first. Lose your ego first and only then you find true peace, happiness and success.

When you learn to lose your ego, you lose your impatience. The more you develop this virtue of patience, the more you begin to Win. You start winning the game of life!

Make way for the beautiful to happen

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First, you must admit that your life has become too stressed, unhappy and morose.

Second, you must be all set and ready for a complete change. Only then will you truly metamorphose.

Ready to lose your unhappiness and your stress?

Start by detaching yourself from your false identity. You must accept the fact that your ego is not higher than your own truth. Your name, fame and money you have accumulated constructs your false identity. Don’t be attached to it.

Work from a different center altogether. If you work from a state of ignorance and attached to your ego, you may seem to win the game of life in the beginning, but that will be your biggest defeat.

If you remain centered in your universal and peaceful source, then you start to build a foundation. It will be quite evident that while you are on your spiritual journey, you feel you are losing everything. You may not have enough friends, money or peace. But that’s the beauty. You are actually building the secret ‘KEY’ that will open the doors of eternal success in your life.

Losers start to win early and lose all later. Winners build their inner strength and therefore never lose!

Learn this art and secret of life. Learn to lose first. Lose your ego, your impatience and then if you have sown the seeds of this virtue, flowers will blossom.


Life is an art! – Practice it.

Winning by losing is an art in itself. It is the universal secret and the basis of all the mystery.  Life around us, the natural world is so calm and beautiful. You need to meditate to see this.

We have made life such a dead routine that we have almost forgotten that life is actually an art. This art of life needs to be practiced. There is beauty all around.

If we learn to give up and lose all our impatience, the desire to achieve something, we will connect to our original source of affluence.

Life is not a scientific model for study.

Life is not a religion to be followed.

Life is not a holy book that needs to be studied.

Life is an art which needs to be practiced. This Art requires that you lose yourself first. Lose your ego, lose your impatience, and if needed even be prepared to lose your life.

That is why it is important to be courageous. Because only the courageous can follow this path. Only the brave can give up, only the brave can incorporate patience in their lives and only the brave can follow this Spiritual path. Only the brave can uncover this secret of life.

A word of caution here. Bravery doesn’t mean physical or violent courage. Bravery here means the “Courage to let go“. Bravery means the courage to be detached even from your life itself.


The secret of life – Revealed!

It takes time to build real strength. Even though you have the spiritual source inside you, it is hidden. Also, the fact that you are too busy forgetting it, makes it seem a distant dream.

The more you attach yourself to the frivolities of life, the more you find it difficult to get back to your inner source. The time to act is now. Let go of all the stupid things that you have been doing. Let go of the materialistic goals you have been setting up for yourself. Let go of your desires to be rich, to be a celebrity, to be something. Because all this is unnatural.

You are already a hero. You are already a spiritual being. The source where you come from is the source of all the richness and beauty of the world.

The more you give up chasing the material world, the more you increase the possibility of attaining your true source of happiness and affluence. The secret to all this is to lose your false identity first.

Again, the secret of life is to lose your love for materialistic desires. Lose your love for your false identity, lose your ego. And once you understand it deep inside that you already have everything, it becomes quite easy to drop the ego.

If you learn this art of letting go of falsity and thoroughly practice it, the secret of life will be revealed to you!


I wish you good luck in your spiritual journey! May your light shine!

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